Forgiving Others – Especially When They Don’t Deserve It [TJJS:EP289]

Forgiving Others

forgiving others

SSo, your boss is a micromanaging asshat. Or your parents were pretty assholey to you while you were growing up. Or maybe your ex pulled some seriously shady shit. And let’s just say that the idea of ‘forgiveness’ seems at the very least, laughable, and at the most, completely impossible.

If you’ve found yourself hell-bent on blaming and resenting your mother-in-law, your ex, your annoying colleague, or whoever, it’s likely that you’ve found yourself feeling angry, frustrated, and victim-y. Although the behavior of others can be infuriating and insidious, it’s actually up to YOU how much you continue to suffer over their deeds. Wait, WHAT!?

I know… It’s cray. But, listen up, babycakes. If you are committed to your blame, you are committed to your suffering. Period. But, not to fear, in this week’s pod episode, I sound off on five key steps you can take to let go of all your anger and resentment and leave these issues/people in the past so you can move forward into your brilliant life already!

This pod explores:

  • Understanding what forgiveness IS and what it IS NOT (which might surprise you!)
  • Why it’s important that you forgive but DON’T FORGET… because, boundaries.
  • Figuring out what to say to yourself when you get super pissed at dad/boss/ex/religion, etc
  • The two main factors you MUST focus on if you want to move beyond all this bitterness and hatred

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