The Difference Between Fear + Your Inner Critic (And What to Do About Them) EP#211

The Difference Between Fear + Your Inner Critic (And What to Do About Them) EP#211

 

 

   

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Tell me if this sounds familiar: You get all pumped up about a new love interest or an exciting new job opportunity and then BAM! All of a sudden you feel a sinking feeling in your belly and a barrage of commentary starts in your mind. What if he thinks I’m too high-maintenance? What if they think I’m under-qualified? What if her family hates me? What if they think I’m incompetent?

You know that mind vortex, amiright? This, my friend, is the lovely little dance between Fear and your Inner Critic. They hybrid of how you FEEL and what you are SAYING to yourself in your own mind. Much of the time they work very much in tandem, but there is a subtle difference.

Why does this matter? Because the more you can understand what negativity is happening in your mind and body, the more equipped you are to combat it… And overcome it. In this episode, I tease apart the differences between these two concepts and show you ways you can “catch” either one. The more you understand, the better you will be at choosing to listen to your powerful inner voice so you can actually find that soulmate or start that biz or go back and finish that degree. And feel damn good about it.

This pod explores:

  • The #1 phrase you must start listening for in order to operate from a place of confidence instead of fear
  • My favorite tool to distract yourself from catastrophic thinking so you can actually focus (and get) what you really want
  • How to know if your Inner Critic is more of a feeling or a voice or both and what to do with each of them
  • Two areas to focus on so you can jump from fearful and freaked-out to confident and courageous

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How to Stop Feeling Guilty EP#210

How to Stop Feeling Guilty EP#210

 

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Did you know that we experience guilt for a very specific reason? That it’s actually designed to help us? Wait, WHAT?

And, no, it’s not so you can feel like shit when your mom tells you how disappointed she is that you don’t call often enough or so you feel awful for declining an invite to a party you soooo don’t want to go to. Guilt is actually designed to alert us when we’ve done something wrong… something we aren’t proud of – NOT for when someone simply doesn’t like our choices. Oh, shit, really?

Recently a listener penned the show asking how to deal with the nagging sense of guilt and “feeling bad” that she experienced with little requests and jabs from her close friends and family members. I mean… we have all been there. So what do you do about it? If it’s not your fault, then why do you feel so shitty?

Well, that’s where I come in, Babycakes. In this episode, I break down the real-deal about Guilt – how to change what you “feel bad” about, how to identify your biggest triggers, and my absolute FAV tool for giving Guilt a nice, fatty drop-kick.

This pod explores:

  • Your new go-to question to ask yourself the minute you feel guilt about something (Hint, it’ll snap you out of it reeeal quick)
  • How to identify the people and scenarios that send you on an epic guilt trip so you can switch that shit up!
  • A game-changing tool you can use today to take you from a guilty mess to a powerful badass
  • Why you absolutely HAVE TO stop saying “But, I feel bad!” or “I feel guilty though!” and what to say instead (and, you won’t end up a heartless bitch #pinkyswear)

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How to Teach Personal Development to Kids EP#209

How to Teach Personal Development to Kids EP#209

 

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Recently a listener wrote to the show wondering how she should go about teaching some of the concepts she has been learning in her own personal growth journey, to her children. Although it takes many of us decades upon decades to get our shit straight, much of that is indicative of the way in which we were raised. Now, I’m not talking shit on our parents, I’m just saying we are living in a pretty conscious and evolved time where serious, deep convos with our kids are totally and completely possible. And I would argue, necessary.

Kids are often far more savvy than we give them credit for and chances are, your little love will comprehend more about this journey than you realize. In this episode, I look at 7 steps you can immediately take to start sharing some of your self-help work with your Littles. And, trust… as they usually do, it’s likely they’ll teach you a thing or two as well.

This pod explores:

  • The number one thing you HAVE TO start fostering in your children if you want to equip them to manage life’s roller coasters
  • What my pops used to do after he lost his shit on me (or my bros) and how it was one of the biggest learning lessons of my life (And why you should start doing it too)
  • How to develop daily self-help habits with your kiddos
  • Why it really doesn’t always matter what you say to them… and what really matters

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Dealing with Control Issues EP#208

Dealing with Control Issues EP#208

 

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YYou know that thing where you’re trying to act all casual and cool, but secretly you want to micromanage the hell outta an event you’re hosting, a project you’re working on, your kid, your spouse, your boss, etc.? Guess what, my friend? You’re dealing with some control issues. And, listen, the reason I know a thing or two about this shiz is because I’ve battled this little beast for nearly 40 years. So, I feel you. But, sweet baby Jesus, there is hope. Trust.

The thing about “control” is that sometimes it actually DOES contribute to your happiness. Sometimes it really DOES make things easier, more efficient, and timely and in turn, leaves you feeling powerful and fulfilled. Like, Ninja-Warrior-style. And then there are the other times. The times when trying to control a situation (or person) create massive anxiety, overwhelm, and bitterness.

Have a listen to this episode where I discuss seven steps to figuring out the most powerful role Control can play in your world. It’s time to stop trying to control the ex, your mom, or your home. No more angst and frustration. Say hello to surrender and a shit-ton of freedom.

This pod explores:

  • How to distinguish when controlling a sitch is an awesome idea and when you need to back-the-fuck-off
  • The secret role Fear plays in the need to control + how to operate from courage instead
  • How to let go of the “rules” you’ve unknowingly created so you can feel waaaay more freedom
  • The best thing you can do instead of trying to control shit out of your control

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5 Daily Habits to Make You Waaaaay Happier EP#207

5 Daily Habits to Make You Waaaaay Happier EP#207

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IIf you’ve been diggin’ into personal development, you’ve undoubtedly realized that you don’t get many results by simply hoarding “good ideas”. You know what I’m talking about… scrollin’ through Insta or Facebook, double-tappin’ it up on inspiring messages, or reading a powerful book but not DOING anything with the info.

If you ever fall into this trap, honey, you are soooo not alone. It’s kinda like reading a book on Pilates and expecting to get a rockin’ body. Um, no. Gotta hit the mat, babycakes!

Here’s the deal… creating change in your life is all about your habits. The shit you do day-in and day-out. It’s about monitoring the way you spend your time, energy, and self-talk so you are working towards happiness and fulfillment instead of entertaining a bunch of shit you DON’T want.

Alright, great. So, how do you do this? It all starts with your thoughts and creating a “compound effect” in one of the five areas we chat about today. Have a listen as I sound off on 5, different (easy) habits you can start instituting in your life to create a massive dose of happiness… on the regular.

This pod explores:

  • The subconscious message you’re telling yourself by not speaking up for yourself… and the simple step you can take to knock that shit off
  • How you can say “No” with the utmost grace and kindness, but without over-explaining and making a shit-ton of excuses (and, uh-hem, LIES)
  • The #1, biggest key to unlocking confidence and a love of yourself
  • How to examine your common, go-to behaviors to see if you have been unknowingly shooting yourself in the foot (don’t worry… it’s an easy fix)

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New Level, New Devil: How Your Inner Critic Grows as You Grow EP#206

New Level, New Devil: How Your Inner Critic Grows as You Grow EP#206

 

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Recently, I received an email from a listener who has diligently been working with her tools to combat her inner critic, but she’s noticed that as she has grown, shifted, and changed, so too, has her inner critic. Hello, new level, new devil!

Maybe you can relate? Maybe you’ve been plowin’ along on your personal development journey… reading books, listening to pods, using your tools, and then BAM! Your inner critic shows up in a louder, sneakier, or scarier way. First off, no worries… this just means you’re on the right track and second, there are tons of things you can do to catch this little bugger at this new stage.

Have a listen to this pod where I share 5 things you can do to up your inner-shit-talker rebuttal game so you can feel waaaay more confident that you are actually still in control, tweak your new, powerful, positive self-talk, and feel like you’re still moving in the right direction (and actually kinda #slaying).

This pod explores:

  • The multiple ways your inner critic may have changed as you have grown (some may actually surprise you!)
  • How to develop new self-talk to work with your inner critic at this stage of the journey
  • How to actually get ahead of your inner critic instead of waiting to refute (plus, it feels waaaay better)
  • How the skill of “curiosity” will knock your inner critic out faster than you can say “new level, new devil”

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How to Support a Partner Who is in a Funk EP#205

How to Support a Partner Who is in a Funk EP#205

 

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If you’re like most people, it can be damn-near devastating to watch someone you love dearly go through a rough and difficult time. A listener recently wrote into the show with one such dilemma as her husband has become increasing depressed after being thrown some unfortunate work/career curve-balls.

Maybe you can relate. Maybe you’ve found yourself in a sitch where your partner is straight bummed-the-fuck out about a friendship, a rocky work relationship, a health issue, or some other challenge that you deeeeesperately want to fix. Like, yesterday.

It can be incredibly counter intuitive to simply allow your partner to wade through these murky waters alone, while you sit idly by feeling massively helpless. In this episode, I discuss 5 key concepts you must keep in mind if you want to get through this rough chapter stronger and closer than ever. I’m not saying it’s easy, but there are definitely things you can do to keep your cool, support your love, and take care of the both of you through this trying time.

This pod explores:

  • The absolute FIRST question you must ask your spouse if you want to be any kind of helpful (hint: it’s super easy, yet you probably haven’t done it.)
  • Why you do not need to fix the problem and what to say/do instead (and trying to fix it is likely making it worse)
  • How to ask for what you need and get your needs met… even if it’s not by you partner (wait, what!? yep.)
  • The ridiculous notion of “not taking it personally” and how to battle the responsibility you feel

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How to Say Nice Things to Yourself That You Can Actually Believe EP#204

How to Say Nice Things to Yourself That You Can Actually Believe EP#204


 

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Ever see posts floating around Insta or Facebook that tell you to “just think positive” or “be kind to yourself” and you’re like, “Ok, sure. I’ll get right on that. But, HOW!!?” I totally feel you. If you follow anything remotely inspiring on social, it’s likely you’ve come across these sort of concepts.

In my work with both my clients and students, I find they often need much more structure to understand what disempowering things they are saying to themselves, how to know when they tend to be triggered, and what-the-hell to say instead. For many peeps, simply saying “I love myself!” or “I am enough!” feels like a giant, bullshit lie. Now, don’t get me wrong, if you can speak that way to yourself with believability and conviction, knock yourself out!

However, I do find that many people (probably you) prefer to bridge the gap a bit. In this week’s episode, I’ll walk you through four, easy steps to catch and alter your internal talk… so that you can start speaking to yourself like a bestie and actually believe the empowering statements you’re saying to yourself. Plus, I made you a killer cheatsheet to make your job super easy… so basically, no excuses!

This pod explores:

  • Why much of what you say to yourself is actually bullshit
  • How to “catch” your Inner Shit-Talker and what common language to listen for
  • How to build positive mantras you can actually buy into without feeling like a big ‘ol liar
  • How to speak to yourself in a positive voice so you can stop feeling like shit

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Is this the year you go from a people-pleasing, guilt-tripped perfectionist to a bold and boundaried badass? Um, yeah. I think it is!

If you’re DONE feeling overwhelmed, anxious, and stressed out because you’re constantly doing, doing, doing for everyone else, then you must grab your seat in this brand-new workshop! You’ll learn the exact five-step process I take my clients through so they can let go of all the stress and angst of striving for “perfect” and caring waaaaay too much what everyone else thinks.

It’s time to finally believe in yourself, find that self-confidence you crave, and start living your life for YOU. So, clickety-click RIGHT HUURRR or click that image to the right to get on The List! #yourewelcome

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THE JOY JUNKIE AFTER HOURS CLUB!

COMPLETELY FREE FACEBOOK GROUP. TONS OF SUPPORT YOU CRAVE.
JOIN THE CLUB.

You in on this FREE badassery yet? You are officially invited to my super exclusive/inclusive, [grin] Facebook group, The Joy Junkie After Hours Club!

If you’ve been diggin’ the pod, this group will be an extra dose of support, training vids, discussions, coupon codes, behind the scenes and advice from moi! Plus, it’s #totes free and your new soul tribe is waiting for you!

So, clickety-click RIGHT HUURRR or click that image to the right to join the group! #yourewelcome

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How to Manifest Your Soulmate – Part 2 EP#203

How to Manifest Your Soulmate – Part 2 EP#203

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As you likely know, I often take show topic submissions from our awesome PODiance and we recently received a submission with the subject line, “How to Manifest a Mr. Smith”. Of course, the two of us were quite flattered, but I knew I needed to tackle this common inquiry of how-the-hell do you find “the one”?

If you’ve been coming up empty in the dating arena and are wondering what you’re doing wrong, this two-part episode is going to be your jam. Here’s the deal: Unless you’ve had some sort of magical, utopian guide on dating, it’s likely that you’ve learned how to date and be in relationship through trial and error, your parent’s [awesome] example, and/or a barrage of confusing commentary about what’s “normal” and “realistic” from our hyperbolic media.

So, how does one find “the one”? Kismet? Chant some magic words or build an alter? Online dating? [starts to pull teeth out] I feel you. Because I wanted to equip you with everything in YOUR power to call in your dream-boat, I created this two-part pod series to teach you how to get crystal clear on what you want in a partner, and in this second edition in particular, what you can actually DO about it. If you’ve been feeling like the cards are stacked against you, get ready to feel super empowered and excited about your future holds. (Not just swipe-right kind of excited.)

This pod explores:

  • What (and who) you need to stop doing if you are serious about getting down to biz with finding your heart’s twin
  • How to know what action to take to put yourself out there… without feeling like you’d rather eat a shit sandwich
  • How your inability to receive compliments and kindnesses from others could be negatively affecting your dating life
  • How to stay positive and encourage yourself throughout the process (even if you’d rather just blame your ex for everything)

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FREE WORKSHEETS WITH THIS EPISODE!

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Free Worksheet

Did you grab your free cheat-sheet that accompanies this episode? Get on it, Babycakes! Here’s the deal: our brain takes things waaaaay more seriously when we get out of our heads and get our thoughts/commitments out on paper. It’s like, science.

So, OF COURSE I want you to make some serious changes and start #manifesting, so be sure you have your Pod #203 worksheets with you while you (re) listen to this pod so you can get into some serious action. Trust… if you just listen and don’t DO, you’re not going to manifest shit.

So, clickety-click RIGHT HUURRR or click that image above to get your freebies sent directly to your inbox! #yourewelcome

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NEW *FREE* WORKSHOP

READY TO GET RID OF PERFECTIONISM, SELF-DOUBT, AND OVERWHELM?
OF COURSE, YOU ARE!

Is this the year you go from a people-pleasing, guilt-tripped perfectionist to a bold and boundaried badass? Um, yeah. I think it is!

If you’re DONE feeling overwhelmed, anxious, and stressed out because you’re constantly doing, doing, doing for everyone else, then you must grab your seat in this brand-new workshop! You’ll learn the exact five-step process I take my clients through so they can let go of all the stress and angst of striving for “perfect” and caring waaaaay too much what everyone else thinks.

It’s time to finally believe in yourself, find that self-confidence you crave, and start living your life for YOU. So, clickety-click RIGHT HUURRR or click that image to the right to get on The List! #yourewelcome

______

THE JOY JUNKIE AFTER HOURS CLUB!

COMPLETELY FREE FACEBOOK GROUP. TONS OF SUPPORT YOU CRAVE.
JOIN THE CLUB.

You in on this FREE badassery yet? You are officially invited to my super exclusive/inclusive, [grin] Facebook group, The Joy Junkie After Hours Club!

If you’ve been diggin’ the pod, this group will be an extra dose of support, training vids, discussions, coupon codes, behind the scenes and advice from moi! Plus, it’s #totes free and your new soul tribe is waiting for you!

So, clickety-click RIGHT HUURRR or click that image to the right to join the group! #yourewelcome

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How to Manifest Your Soulmate – Part 1 EP#202

How to Manifest Your Soulmate – Part 1 EP#202

 

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Recently, a super sweet PODiance member wrote in to the show and the subject line of her email was “How to Manifest a Mr. Smith”. Of course, we were extremely flattered, but it got me thinking about what it really takes to manifest your soulmate. I mean… are some people just lucky and everyone else is screwed? Hardly.

Here’s the deal… no one ever teaches us how to prepare ourselves to be in a relationship. So, what happens? We usually just jump in and learn as we go… over-riding our intuition, ignoring warning signs, and inevitably taking on a bunch of “projects”.

In this pod, I’ll have you dig into your deepest, truest desires for a partner. You’ll uncover what he/she looks like, acts like, what your life looks like together, and who you intend to be inside your relationship. We’re dreamin’ this week and next week we’ll be schemin’.

This episode is the first of a two-part series I have created to equip you will all the tools nessessary to summon up your soulie. Don’t worry… you don’t have to chant, or burn anyone’s hair, or pray to an alter. In fact, you already have everything you need. Intrigued? Duh. Have a listen.

This pod explores:

  • What to do with your pesky Inner Critic while you manifest your soulie (the one who tells you you’re being too picky and unrealistic… yeah, you know the one)
  • The number one reason why you haven’t found your heart’s twin yet (and it’s super simple to fix!)
  • My favorite exercise I’ve given clients and students to manifest their partner and I shit you not, I’ve been invited to five weddings because of it! (One I even officiated!)
  • Why you HAVE to tell the universe what you want in a partner (because the opposite SUCKS!)

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FREE WORKSHEETS WITH THIS EPISODE!

GRAB YOURS BELOW!

Did you grab your free cheat-sheet that accompanies this episode? Get on it, Babycakes! Here’s the deal: our brain takes things waaaaay more seriously when we get out of our heads and get our thoughts/commitments out on paper. It’s like, science.

So, OF COURSE I want you to make some serious changes and start #manifesting, so be sure you have your Pod #202 worksheets with you while you (re) listen to this pod so you can get into some serious action. Trust… if you just listen and don’t DO, you’re not going to manifest shit.

So, clickety-click RIGHT HUURRR or click that image above to get your freebies sent directly to your inbox! #yourewelcome

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Additional Resources:

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How to Leave Apple Podcasts Reviews:

  • Click the “Subscribe on Apple Podcasts” button below or go HERE
  • Click on blue button that reads “view in Apple Podcasts” which will open the podcast into your personal Apple Podcasts account
  • Click “Ratings & Reviews” under the show title
  • Click the star rating of choice and then click the “Write a Review” button
  • You can also click “Subscribe” under the podcast photo to be automatically notified of new episodes

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Want to Submit a Show Topic?

Swing by THIS PAGE and let us hear what you would like us to sound off on!

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