7 Ways to Stay Positive Around Negative People EP#271

7 Ways to Stay Positive Around Negative People EP#271

 

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YYou walk into work, totally optimistic about your day, and you give your co-worker a casual ‘How-ya-doin’-today?’ She responds with her usual quip about how she’s ‘alright-I-guess’ but immediately launches into complaining about her neighbor/workload/recent ailment.

Or maybe it’s every time you give your sister a ring on the phone. You ask how she’s doing. She starts off with all the problems… all the things that are shitty… or all the reason’s she’s a total victim. And you’re over here like, “Why is everyone so damn negative!?”

It can sometimes feel like it will take a sheer act of god to stay positive around negative people. It tends to be a much more difficult endeavor to get others to join your positivity movement than to simply indulge and comply with their complaints, ho-humery, or victim mentality.

So, what’s a personal development junkie to do when around such negativity? Just cut those people out entirely? But, what if they’re co-workers? I can’t just quit my job! And, what if they are The Fam? Not to worry, my love. In this episode, I discuss 7 tactics you can use to keep your sanity around Debbie/Danny Downer without feeling like an elitist asshole.

This pod explores:

  • The first (and often overlooked) step you have to take to begin weeding out the non-joy-junkies
  • My favorite way to “prep” for being around negative people so you can stay chill, calm, and happy
  • How to “call-out” Negative Nancy/Norman without creating a huge, awkward-ass moment
  • Conversation hacks and questions to use when you know you’re going to be around negative peeps

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True Or False: Communication Edition, Volume 2 EP#270

True Or False: Communication Edition, Volume 2 EP#270

 

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IIt’s round two of ‘Quiz Time’ on the podcast! As you know, I love to talk about all things communication… How to speak up for yourself with that *one* family member, how to actually say ‘no’ to shit that isn’t serving you, and how to have tough conversations like a total badass. Last week, I thought it would be fun to quiz Mr. Smith on some of these communication principles. It turned out that I had so many scenarios that I had to make it a two-part series!

This week, you can further your communication acumen as we discuss statements that involve addressing sticky topics with your partner, how to best approach a tough convo, and what a solid boundary actually sounds like. Play along as I read six statements and see how you fare! #youvegotthis

This pod explores:

  • The crucial element many people neglect when trying to establish a boundary
  • How your self-worth is affected by your ability to speak up for yourself or not
  • The most effective way to address your partner when they have straight pissed you off!
  • How to communicate effectively with your fam, even when they are NOT happy with your choices

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True or False: Communication Edition, Volume 1 EP#269

True or False: Communication Edition, Volume 1 EP#269

 

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IIt’s quiz time on the podcast! Ok, so a bit of context: As you are likely well aware, I talk about all things communication a lot. Like, alot-alot. How to speak up for yourself effectively with your fam, friends, spouse, coworkers… How to establish boundaries… How to say “No” without being riddled with guilt. You know the drill.

Well, I thought it would be fun to give Mr. Smith a little True/False quiz on the show to see if I’ve been clear with my not-so-humble message. Play along as I read six statements related to communication and test out your communication savvy! And, don’t miss next week when I’ll school Mr. Smith on Communication Quiz, Volume 2! #HeSaysHesTheVoiceOfThePeopleSo…

This pod explores:

  • The most important skill (above all else) you MUST master for effective communication (hint: most people actually ignore it altogether)
  • When too much time has passed to circle back and apologize to someone you’ve wronged
  • Exactly what to say if someone says something offensive in your company
  • My favorite tool to enlist when you’re getting a bit too worked up/angry during an [uh-hem] “discussion”

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Accepting Help from Others: Why You Need to + How to Start EP#268

Accepting Help from Others: Why You Need to + How to Start EP#268

 

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YYou don’t want to put anyone out. You don’t want to be a burden. You’re afraid you’d be asking too much. So you stay quiet. You muscle through. You do everything on your own. Which usually means a constant state of stress, overwhelm, and crankiness is your daily reality. I mean… That’s what a strong person does, right? Just handles it all on their own?

Um, no.
A strong person is brave. Courageous.
And bravery is asking for help when you mutha-fuckin need it.

But, that’s most certainly not what we’ve been taught all our lives, amiright!? We’re taught to not “rock the boat” or “put anyone out” so god-forbid you actually ASK for help moving your shit into storage or ASK for help from your bestie who has already offered to watch your kids so you can finally have a date with your love.

In this week’s show, I discuss 4 reasons why you absolutely MUST start asking for and accepting help from others. So, if you think you’ve got all this shit covered on your own, guess again. I also share 4 different steps you can take to actually start asking for help in ways that seem a bit more safe and not so damn scary.

This pod explores:

  • How accepting help from others relates to manifesting shit you want in your life
  • How to know WHO to ask for help and who you must NOT lean on
  • How you can actually improve your sense of worthiness (or ‘enoughness’) by allowing help from others

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Why ‘Hope’ is a Four-Letter Word EP#267

Why ‘Hope’ is a Four-Letter Word EP#267

 

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EEver find yourself hoping and praying that something will work out in your favor? Maybe you’re hoping a family function will go well, you get that job you’ve interviewed for, or perhaps you are hoping *that certain someone* you love will finally get clean and sober. And, although we’ve been taught that Hope is quite the virtue, I would argue that sometimes Hope destroys. (Yes, I actually just said that.)

I think it’s far less common to talk about the negative consequences of a life consumed in Hope. Now, don’t get me wrong, I totally think Hope has it’s place and can provide immense comfort, but I think it’s worth examining when we use Hope as a crutch. As an excuse. As denial. Hoping that things work out but NOT making any solid plans of action. Hoping that your spouse will magically be what you need after expressing your needs over and over again and continually being let down… but, of course, hanging on to hope that he’ll change.

And let’s not forget that when you place all your eggs in the Hope basket, you are likely giving all your power away to people and circumstances you can’t control and ultimately you post-pone your happiness… You know, until X,Y, or Z happens… Because surely then, THEN you can be happy. Have a listen and see if you’ve been attached to Hope as a breath of inspiration and comfort or if you’ve allowed it to become a crutch of stagnation and self-sacrifice. Or… somewhere in-between.

This pod explores:

  • Why ‘Hope’ isn’t a strategy
  • Think you’re super hopeful? You may actually be in denial… find out how to tell the difference
  • How ‘Hope’ may be putting your happiness on hold
  • How to know when it’s time to be hopeful and when you’re giving all your power away to shit you can’t control

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How to Stop Jumping to [Ridiculous] Conclusions EP#266

How to Stop Jumping to [Ridiculous] Conclusions EP#266

 

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TTell me if this sounds familiar: You have a conversation with someone and you weren’t sure about how you came across to the other person, so you spend hours (or days) replaying the convo in your head, convincing yourself that they must totally think you’re an asshole or an idiot, or whatever, and before you know it, you’ve totally fabricated an entire scenario that doesn’t even exist and you’re convinced that person hates you and you might as well move out of the country.

Whew! So, yeah, I’ve gone down that rabbit hole a number of times. It can be so easy to allow our ambitious and creative minds completely run away and jump to massive conclusions that are often extremely unfounded and also highly unlikely. We do the same thing with how we speak to ourselves too. We think “If that guy doesn’t want to see me again, I must be a total loser who is damaged and unlovable.” Wait. What!? Yeah, totally jump to a ridiculous conclusion.

In this episode, I examine how we do this behavior in our own minds and also in our relationship to other people. Have a listen and learn some concrete tools to help you evade this common conclusion trap.

This pod explores:

  • The most common way we jump to detrimental conclusions about ourselves (and how to switch it!)
  • How to stop making up completely false and unfounded scenarios in your mind
  • How to focus on the facts of the situation instead of creating stories
  • How to gather necessary information to stop your anxious mind

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Who’s Talking? My Inner Critic? Or My Intuition? How to Tell the Difference EP#265

Who’s Talking? My Inner Critic? Or My Intuition? How to Tell the Difference EP#265

 

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YYou put your name in for a promotion but now your mind is spinning… Is this the best choice for me? What does my gut tell me? Is my inner critic just freaking out and telling me I’m not smart enough for the job? Or maybe you’ve been feeling like a friend of yours is taking advantage of you. You’ve been thinking, Am I just being a big baby? Or is my intuition trying to tell me to establish a boundary with her?

Tell me if this sounds familiar: You’ve found yourself at a similar decision point as listed above, trying to make the most empowered choice for yourself, and for the life of you, you can’t tell if your intuition is talking to you or if your inner critic is just freaking out at the onset of change. Because, I mean, FEAR is comin’ in strong in both situations. So, is it my inner critic or intuition!!? Ahhhhh!!

This is perhaps one of the most challenging pieces of the inner work that goes into fostering a strong, empowered relationship with Self. Help is on the way, my friend! Have a listen to this episode where I share 4 specific tools you can employ to figure out who-the-hell is talking to you in your head!

This pod explores:

  • The role of Fear and how it will always be present [So, there’s that… whomp, whomp]
  • My favorite tool to learn how to ‘tap into’ your intuition
  • Why you must be EXTREMELY careful whose advice you seek when making a decision
  • What to do if you end up making a poor choice that you end up regretting

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What Self-Care *Really* Means Ep#264

What Self-Care *Really* Means Ep#264

 

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YYou’re scrollin’ through Insta or Facebook and you see all these lovely inspirational memes about self-care and making yourself important and you’re like, “Yeah, lemme just book a facial. That should help me feel less stress from my shit job.” If you’ve been cynical about self-care, honey, I feel you.

Self-care’s online reputation would have you believing that taking care of yourself is all about mani/pedi’s, bubble baths, and massages. While these things definitely fall in the self-care category, there are actually WAY more ways to take care of yourself… most likely in ways you haven’t even thought of.

In this week’s pod, I share four major categories of your life that are often overlooked when it comes to truly taking care of yourself. If you’ve been feeling like you just don’t have the time for a spa day, but you KNOW something’s gotta change or you’re going to lose your shit, this episode is a MUST-LISTEN.

This pod explores:

  • What-the-hell boundaries have to do with self-care
  • The number one area where Perfectionists tend to majorly lack self-care
  • Dental visits, work relationships,‘Being Lazy’, and other surprising forms of self-care

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Is this the year you go from a people-pleasing, guilt-tripped perfectionist to a bold and boundaried badass? Um, yeah. I think it is!

If you’re DONE feeling overwhelmed, anxious, and stressed out because you’re constantly doing, doing, doing for everyone else, then you must grab your seat in this brand-new workshop! You’ll learn the exact five-step process I take my clients through so they can let go of all the stress and angst of striving for “perfect” and caring waaaaay too much what everyone else thinks.

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Mailbag 6.0: Relationship Edition – Overcoming Communication + Insecurity Issues EP#263

Mailbag 6.0: Relationship Edition – Overcoming Communication + Insecurity Issues EP#263

 

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RRecently, a few listeners wrote in to the show sharing some current relationship struggles they had been up against. Perhaps you can relate to one of these scenarios.

One listener had been struggling with communication in her relationship because her partner looooooves to talk but she absolutely does not and it’s #def causing some serious relationship-ending probs. Another listener is currently struggling to let go of her partner’s romantic past and yet another is finding challenges working on her relationship because her partner doesn’t think anything is wrong and everything is her fault… how fun, right?

If you’ve battled communication issues or jealousy issues inside your romantic relationship, you are soooo not alone. Have a listen to this episode where I talk about ‘de-coding’ your partner’s communication (so you can actually get somewhere instead of fighting all the damn time) and what-the-hell you do with a partner who doesn’t think they need to work on anything. Like, at all. You actually don’t have to have your partner’s buy-in in order to shift your relationship dynamics. Pinky swear. Plus, I drop three tips you can immediately implement to get you out of a self-doubt spiral if you happen to be super insecure about your partner’s past.

This pod explores:

  • Why you don’t always have to communicate with words (Wait, whaaaaa!? Yep. Imma teach ya.)
  • What your partner is really saying when they complain about something you’re doing
  • What to say to your partner when you’re super insecure about their past relationships/romantic history
  • What to do if your partner always thinks everything is fine and you’re the only one creating issues

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INTERESTED IN DEEP, DOWN + DIRTY?

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Is this the year you go from a people-pleasing, guilt-tripped perfectionist to a bold and boundaried badass? Um, yeah. I think it is!

If you’re serious about creating lasting and powerful change in your life, I urge you to read all about Deep, Down + Dirty and see if it’s just the ass kicking you may be needing.

It’s time to finally believe in yourself, find that self-confidence you crave, and start living your life for YOU. So, clickety-click RIGHT HUURRR or click that image to the right to get aaaaaall the info. #yourewelcome

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READY TO GET RID OF PERFECTIONISM, SELF-DOUBT, AND OVERWHELM?
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Is this the year you go from a people-pleasing, guilt-tripped perfectionist to a bold and boundaried badass? Um, yeah. I think it is!

If you’re DONE feeling overwhelmed, anxious, and stressed out because you’re constantly doing, doing, doing for everyone else, then you must grab your seat in this brand-new workshop! You’ll learn the exact five-step process I take my clients through so they can let go of all the stress and angst of striving for “perfect” and caring waaaaay too much what everyone else thinks.

It’s time to finally believe in yourself, find that self-confidence you crave, and start living your life for YOU. So, clickety-click RIGHT HUURRR or click that image to the right to get on The List! #yourewelcome

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If you’ve been diggin’ the pod, this group will be an extra dose of support, training vids, discussions, coupon codes, behind the scenes and advice from moi! Plus, it’s #totes free and your new soul tribe is waiting for you!

So, clickety-click RIGHT HUURRR or click that image to the right to join the group! #yourewelcome

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I Thought I Already Dealt with This! Why Your Personal Development Journey is Never ‘Done’ EP#262

I Thought I Already Dealt with This! Why Your Personal Development Journey is Never ‘Done’ EP#262

 

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YYou spent years in therapy dealing with your “family of origin” issues, so #WTF does dad still trigger you like crazy? You learned how to deal with your inner critic, so why do you still beat yourself up time and again? You know how to speak up for yourself, but you let your MIL run all over you yesterday. So what gives?

Well, my friend, this lovely little personal development journey you’ve got here… NEVER ENDS. And, that doesn’t mean that your life doesn’t get a shit-ton better and have you all empowered, but it DOES mean that you will likely contend with hardship and triggers for the rest of your life… PD just helps you engage with those triggers and hardships in a more empowered way.

If you’ve ever judged your own personal growth journey and said things like, “I thought I already worked through this shit!” then this episode is a must-listen. I address 5 concepts that can help you alter your perspective around your own growth which will leave you #relieved and excited about the journey instead of judging it.

This pod explores:

  • Why personal growth isn’t a “one and done” sort of process and how to view it in a more empowering light
  • My favorite question to ask yourself when old shit surfaces again (Ugh. I know)
  • How to make sure you stay on track with your personal growth journey

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Is this the year you go from a people-pleasing, guilt-tripped perfectionist to a bold and boundaried badass? Um, yeah. I think it is!

If you’re serious about creating lasting and powerful change in your life, I urge you to read all about Deep, Down + Dirty and see if it’s just the ass kicking you may be needing.

It’s time to finally believe in yourself, find that self-confidence you crave, and start living your life for YOU. So, clickety-click RIGHT HUURRR or click that image to the right to get aaaaaall the info. #yourewelcome

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READY TO GET RID OF PERFECTIONISM, SELF-DOUBT, AND OVERWHELM?
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Is this the year you go from a people-pleasing, guilt-tripped perfectionist to a bold and boundaried badass? Um, yeah. I think it is!

If you’re DONE feeling overwhelmed, anxious, and stressed out because you’re constantly doing, doing, doing for everyone else, then you must grab your seat in this brand-new workshop! You’ll learn the exact five-step process I take my clients through so they can let go of all the stress and angst of striving for “perfect” and caring waaaaay too much what everyone else thinks.

It’s time to finally believe in yourself, find that self-confidence you crave, and start living your life for YOU. So, clickety-click RIGHT HUURRR or click that image to the right to get on The List! #yourewelcome

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THE JOY JUNKIE AFTER HOURS CLUB!

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JOIN THE CLUB.

You in on this FREE badassery yet? You are officially invited to my super exclusive/inclusive, [grin] Facebook group, The Joy Junkie After Hours Club!

If you’ve been diggin’ the pod, this group will be an extra dose of support, training vids, discussions, coupon codes, behind the scenes and advice from moi! Plus, it’s #totes free and your new soul tribe is waiting for you!

So, clickety-click RIGHT HUURRR or click that image to the right to join the group! #yourewelcome

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