Accepting Help from Others: Why You Need to + How to Start [TJJS:EP268]

Accepting Help From Others

accepting help from others

YYou don’t want to put anyone out. You don’t want to be a burden. You’re afraid you’d be asking too much. So you stay quiet. You muscle through. You do everything on your own. Which usually means a constant state of stress, overwhelm, and crankiness is your daily reality. I mean… That’s what a strong person does, right? Just handles it all on their own?

Um, no.
A strong person is brave. Courageous.
And bravery is asking for help when you mutha-fuckin need it.

But, that’s most certainly not what we’ve been taught all our lives, amiright!? We’re taught to not “rock the boat” or “put anyone out” so god-forbid you actually ASK for help moving your shit into storage or ASK for help from your bestie who has already offered to watch your kids so you can finally have a date with your love.

In this week’s show, I discuss 4 reasons why you absolutely MUST start asking for and accepting help from others. So, if you think you’ve got all this shit covered on your own, guess again. I also share 4 different steps you can take to actually start asking for help in ways that seem a bit more safe and not so damn scary.

This pod explores:

  • How accepting help from others relates to manifesting shit you want in your life
  • How to know WHO to ask for help and who you must NOT lean on
  • How you can actually improve your sense of worthiness (or ‘enoughness’) by allowing help from others

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