5 Lies Your Inner Shit-Talker Tells You About Your Relationship EP#139

Feb 14, 2016

 

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EEver think, “Jesus! How can my partner NOT know how much that means to me?!” or “I should be in love with him” (even if you KNOW you aren’t totally all-in, or how about “There’s no way I could tell him that… it would destroy him!”

If any of these thoughts rush in and out of your mind, you are totally normal. And… without knowing it you may be inadvertently be buying into lies you tell yourself about your relationship. Before you start beating yourself up… There’s a strong chance you have NO idea that you’ve been lying to yourself or rather, totally listening to your inner shit-talker.

In this week’s episode, I discuss 5 major ways our inner critic keeps us locked into blame and inaction in our relationships and how it arrests us from having the intimacy we truly desire. Have a listen and learn how to catch those inner lies and change your approach in your relationship… so you can actually LOVE your love.

This pod explores:

  • How you get stuck in the “shoulds” of your relationship
  • Why you assume your partner is a mind-reader (I mean… he should totally know that… right!?)
  • How you may be causing a total stand-off with your mate and not even realize it
  • What to say instead of “You always…” or “You never…”

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I'm a sassy-ass life coach and hypnotherapist who specializes in all things self-worth and confidence. I help aspiring badasses (hint: that's YOU!) stand up for themselves without being assholes. As in... telling your mom to stop butting into your relationship. You feel me, no?

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